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The Blessed Days of Dhul Hijjah

The Blessed Days of Dhul Hijjah

In what follows, we will highlight some of the Sunnah regarding these days, hoping by this to provide an incentive to make the best out of them and gain Allaah’s reward, in shaa’ Allaah.

The First Ten Days of Dhul-Hijjah

"The best days in the world are the Ten days." [Ibn Hibbaan, al-Bazzaar, authenticated in Saheeh Jaami` us-Sagheer #1133]

"There are no days during which good deeds are more beloved by Allaah than these (ten) days." [al-Bukhaaree, at-Tirmidhee and others] The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, was then asked: "Not even Jihaad in Allaah’s way?" He replied: "Not even Jihaad in Allaah’s way; except for a person who went out (for Jihaad) with his self and wealth and came back with none (i.e. lost all for Allaah)." [at-Tirmidhee, authenticated in al-Albaanee’s Irwaa’ ul-Ghaleel, #953]

All good deeds can be done during these days and the early generations of Muslims used to exert themselves excessively in worshipping Allaah. In particular, fasting and dhikr (mentioning and remembering Allaah) are to be done in plenty on these days.

Dhikr

Ibn `Abbaas commented on the verse <<…and to mention Allaah’s name [plentifully] on Known days>> [22:28] by saying: <…these known days are the ten days [of Dhul Hijjah].> [Tafseer ibn Katheer]

Fasting

One of the wives of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: "Allaah’s Messenger used to fast the (first) nine days of Dhul Hijjah, the day of `Ashooraa’, and three days of each month. [Saheeh Sunan Abee Daawood #2129]

Fasting on all these days, however, is not a waajib (compulsory), nor is it a constant sunnah that the Messenger, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, never dropped. `Aa’ishah said: "I never saw the Messenger, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, fast the ten days." [Muslim]

The Day of `Arafah - The Best Day of the Whole Year

The day of `Arafah is the day when the pilgrims stand in worship on the Mountain of `Arafah.

"Fasting the day of `Arafah expiates the [minor] sins of two years: a past one and a coming one. And fasting the day of `Aashooraa’ expiates the sins of the past year." [Muslim]

"There is no day on which Allaah `azza wa jall frees people from the Fire as He does no the day of `Arafah. He comes close (to those standing on `Arafah) and then revels before His angels, saying: "What are these people seeking?" [Muslim]

The Day of al-`Ad-haa

The tenth of Dhul-Hijjah is `Eed ul- Ad-haa or the day of an-Nahr (slaughtering). It marks the conclusion of the major rites of Hajj, and commemorates Allaah’s bounty on His Messenger Ibraaheem, when He gave him a ram to sacrifice as ransom for his son Ismaa`eel, `alayhimassalaam.

"The day of al-Fitr [i.e. `Eed ul-Fitr], the day of an-Nahr, and the days of Tashreeq are `Eed days for us Muslims. They are days of eating and drinking." [Ahmad, an-Nasaa’ee, Saheeh ul-Jaami` #8192]

The Three Days Following `Eed ul-`Ad-haa

On these days, the pilgrims complete their rites, Muslims continue with their `Eed celebrations, and are prohibited to fast. "The days of tashreeq are days of eating, drinking and mentioning Allaah." [Muslim]

The Sacrifice

Allaah `azza wa jall mentioned the sacrifice together with the first and foremost worship in Islaam: prayer. This is a clear indication of its great importance. Thus He ordered His Messenger, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, to slaughter sacrifices by saying: <<…Pray unto your Lord and slaughter [your sacrifice]…" [109:2]

Ruling

The general concensus of the Muslim scholars is that the sacrifice is an important sunnah, and a worship called for in the Law of Allaah. However, they differ as to whether it is nafl (voluntary) or waajib (mandatory) for those who can afford it. Some scholars have explained the different ahaadeeth on the subject by stating that the sacrifice is obligatory on those who can afford it and not obligatory on those who cannot.

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: "He who has the capacity, and does not sacrifice, may not approach our musallaa (place of prayer - on the `Eed)." [Ibn Maajah, Ahmad and others, authenticated by Al-Albaanee in Saheeh Sunan Ibn Maajah, #2533]

Regarding this hadeeth, Imaam ash-Shaukaanee said: "Prohibiting the one who could afford to sacrifice, but did not do so, from approaching the musallaa indicates that he must have left off a waajib, as it becomes useless to offer the salaah without this waajib [obligation]." [Nayl ul-Awtaar]

Avoid Cutting Hair or Nails

The one who plans to sacrifice (normally, the head of household) is prohibited to cut his hair or nails from the first Dhul Hijjah until he offers the sacrifice. "For the one who has a slaughtering to perform (on `Eed then, once the hilaal (crescent) of Dhul Hijjah is observed, let him not cut any of his hair or nails until he sacrifices." And in another narration: "Once the ten days start, for those of you who havethe intention to sacrifice, let them not cut any of their hair or nails (until they sacrifice)." [Muslim] This prohibition is the opinion of the majority of the scholars of the early generations of Muslims.

Allaahu A`lam

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إعترافات زوجة مؤثرة جدا

عجبتني جدا فقررت ان تشاركون فيها

اليكم القصة تقول هذه الزوجة المكلومة

!!هجرني وتركني امسح الدمع

عندما يحب الانسان حبا يبالغ شغاف القلب

فأنه يضحي بكل شيئ

من اجل .. من اجل حبيبه

وهذه اعترافاتي اسردها لكم وبكل شجاعة وقوة

تزوجت رجلا ليس في الوجود مثله

ابدا ابدا ابدا ابدا

وبعد شهرين من زواجنا اخبرني انه يحب غيري

نعم .. يحب غيري .. ويرغب في الزواج منها

وانه شديد الحب والولع بها

طأطأت راسي قليلا ثم رفعته

!! وقلت : تحبها اكثر مني ؟؟

فقال : نعم

قلت : اذهب حبيبي اليها وتزوجها فسعادتك سعادتي

قال لي : ولكني لا املك المال الكافي

! قلت : خذ مجوهراتي حبيبي وبعها وتزوج من تحب

رفض وقال : قد تحتاجينها يوما ما يا حبيبتي دعيها لك

وتحت الحاحي واصراري وافق اخذ مجوهراتي وباعها

!! وسافر بحثا عن حبيبته وعشيقته

وتركني عروس حديث العهد بالزواج

ومر شهر .... وشهرين .... وثلاث

وعام .... وعامين .... وثلاث

!!!!!!!! وحبيبي لا يزورني

!! يحدثني بالهاتف ويخبرني انه مشغول ولا يستطيع زيارتي

امسح الدموع ليل نهار واطلق الزفرات واتجرع الحسرات

هل تطنون انني غاضبة منه ؟؟!!

كلا ...... كلا ..... كلا

فهو حبيبي مهما فعل

!! بل انني اعذره نعم اعذره

اشتاق لكلماته

تتلهف اذني لسماع حديثه

صوته الحان تدغدغ اذني

حديثه العذب

كلماته الرقيقة

احيانا يمر شهر دوون ان يحدثني

ااه ما اقساك

!! كم انت قاسي كم انت حنوون

!! كيف تصبرعني انا لا اصبر ؟؟

ولكن هكذا الرجال دائما اقوياء

اكثر صبرا واشد صلابة

عندما يحدثني بالهاتف اشعر ان الحياة بين يدي

اخفي دموعي الرقراقة

وصوتي المبحووح

وتظاهر بالقوة حتى لا يحزن

وانا احدثه

دموعي هائمة على وجهي

وصوتي يتعثر باهاتي

اكتب بكائي داخل اعماقي

واخفي انيني داخل جدران قلبي

صوتي يتقطع في حنجرتي

وقلبي يتمزق بحسراتي

واتظاهر بالقوة حتى لا احزنه

........ ما اصدقنا من زوجين

!! يالك من زوج تترك عروسك لتبحث عن اخرى

ويالك من زوجة تبيعين مجوهراتك

!!!!! لتزوجي زوجك

!!!! اني لاعجب منكما !!

وفي يوم حزين .. بل يوم سعيد